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Apple has guts. Do you?

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on Friday, October 26, 2007 (CST)

If you’re in ministry, you’re going to have people problems and conflict. Conflict develops because in ministry we are dealing with people every day. Here are eight ways to deal with problems right now.

Reports are surfacing that Apple fired 800 Apple Store retail associates who cashed in on the $100 iPhone credit on the phones Apple gave them for free in the first place. Back when the iPhone launched, people that were employed by Apple for over a year were promised and delivered a free iPhone. 800 of these people decided to cash in on the $100 rebate offer.


Good for Apple. They have guts. The easiest thing for the corporates at Apple would have been to waffle or bury their head under the rug. After all, this massive firing took place in the peek of their busy season. But they dealt with the problem and sent a strong message to their other employees.


This is the confession of someone who hates confrontation. Normally Type-A people don’t dread confrontation, they are fueled by it! Not this one. I have never liked confrontation. This story has reminded me of the importance of dealing with problems and not burying my head under the covers while hoping they go away.


If you’re in ministry, you’re going to have people problems and conflict. Conflict develops because in ministry we are dealing with people every day. Here are eight ways to deal with problems right now.


1. Identify it. You cannot solve anything if you don’t know what the problem is.


2. Make sure you’ve identified the real problem, not a rumor of another problem.


3. Talk to people you trust. Gather as much information as you can.


4. Decide what to do. There may be more than one course of action.


5. Keep in touch with leadership. I’m talking about your pastor, your board, etc.


6. Make a decision.


7. Choose your plan. What are you going to do with this decision?


8. Be the Rock of Gibraltar and don’t move. Execute the plan.


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Confrontation
By Tony Borders on Sunday, November 11, 2007 (CST)
Just a reminder to follow the Biblical method of confrontation found in Mark(?).
1. Approach the person first.
2. If that does not work, bring a second person with you.
3. If that does not work, it needs to go before an approved leadership committee.

If you are thinking of confronting a volunteer, please keep in mind that they are volunteers, not employees. A job done halfway right by a volunteer does not allow you to get onto them for not doing it correctly. You can ask if they would like help in a certain area or would be available for future training. If they are doing ore harm than good talk to them about where they see their ministry gifts. A strong disciplinarian may not be great in preschool, but could do wonders in the fifth grade boys' class.
If you do need to take them before a second person make sure it is someone you both respect. A mediator should not be standing on one side of the line. That would just cause a person to be more on the defensive.
Above all... pray for peace and wisdom and don't let this take anymore of your thought time than necessary. Enjoy the rest of your work.

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Confrontation
By ShawnOKC on Tuesday, December 11, 2007 (CST)
Right on Tony!!

If what we do does not reflect God's methods, we must closely examine what we're up to.

His Kingdom must be led His way. Matt 18:15-20 outlines how to deal with a brother who has hurt you. It also gives leaders guidelines for handling conflict.

Be certain you use wise counsel as you lead. Be more sure you do it God's way.If you're not clear on what to do next, ask Him. He gives wisdom liberally. If you know what to do and need courage, ask for it. "It is God who works in us both to will (desire) and to do (ability) His good pleasure."

All for HIS glory,
ShawnOKC

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